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Friendship/Family

37. The Family – The Gate of Friendship

The Possibility Of Extending Friendships Through The Appreciation Of Its Value.

Gate 37, known as The Family and the Gate of Friendship, is an emotional awareness hub located in the Solar Plexus Center within the Tribal (Defense) Circuit. It is described as the most communal gate in the BodyGraph, representing the organic nature of community and the potential to hold both a family and a group together through warmth, friendliness, and a nurturing nature. Mechanically, it functions as a Projected Gate that governs the formation and maintenance of emotional bonds through agreement, loyalty, and mutual support.

The 37th gate is about community, family, and the social bonds that connect people. The focus is on affection, friendship, and the sensitivity that comes with these relationships, often involving a give-and-take dynamic. There’s always a “price” or exchange in the tribe, as individuals provide what’s needed based on their capabilities. This gate is the need for support, especially from the ego, and the potential for recognizing who will provide and who will not. Ultimately, the 37th gate is deeply tied to resources, both physical and emotional.

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Gate Placement in the BodyGraph

Mechanical Function

The primary function of Gate 37 is Emotional Bonding Through Agreement.

  • The Social Glue: It acts as the “emotional glue” of the tribe, providing the sensitivity to recognize who belongs within a group and assessing the accessibility or openness of others.
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  • The Bargain: This gate does not operate through abstract ideals of unconditional love; instead, it binds people through clear emotional contracts and bargains to ensure protection, continuity, and survival. Its core mechanical question is: “Are we in agreement and is this bond reciprocal?”.
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  • The Distributor: Within tribal dynamics, Gate 37 serves as the distributor of assets and skills. While its harmonic partner (Gate 40) is the “willing provider” who delivers resources, Gate 37 is the one who organizes their distribution and ensures the community has what it needs.
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  • Physical Connection: Gate 37 is specifically associated with the mechanics of touch and the mouth. It utilizes closeness, reassurance, and the shared gathering and preparation of food as primary tools for tribal bonding.

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The Quarter of initiation

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Gates of the Quarter of Initiation

The Quarter of Initiation is the first quadrant of the Mandala, characterized by the theme of purpose fulfilled through the Mind. Mystically known as “The Witness Returns,” this quarter represents the Personality crystal returning to the physical plane to bring renewal to the evolution of consciousness. The primary mechanical functions within this quadrant involve thinking, educating, conceptualizing, and explaining what it means to be alive in form.

This quarter is designed to facilitate the fine-tuning of the mind so that it may eventually surrender its decision-making authority to the directives of the body. It contains nearly all the gates of the Solar Plexus Center, which governs relational intelligence and emerging spirit awareness. Furthermore, the Channel of Initiation (25–51) is located here, providing the mechanical force required to disrupt stagnation and catalyze spiritual transformation.

A Life Work situated in this quarter suggests that your unique contribution is rooted in mental processing and the sharing of insights. This role involves translating individual or collective patterns into formulas, ideas, and stories that help humanity understand its own existence.

An example of this operation is seen in Gate 13 (The Listener), which initiates the quarter by witnessing and collecting the secrets and experiences of others. Another example is Gate 11 (Ideas), which provides the conceptual frameworks and beliefs that stimulate the collective mind. Ultimately, the Quarter of Initiation ensures that mutation and discovery are conceptualized and communicated before they move into the physical structures of the Quarter of Civilization.

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Ra Uru Hu

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Ra Uru Hu The Founder The human Design System

“Born Alan (Robert) Krakower in Montreal, Canada April 9, 1948. He disappeared in 1983 and re-emerged as Ra on the Island of Ibiza and began a process of mystical deconstruction climaxing with his encounter with the “Voice.” Titled ‘Uru Hu’ by the “Voice,” Ra’s encounter and education lasted from January 3-11, 1987.”